Our thoughts have a major impact on our feelings and actions. I know what you’re thinking – this is something we all know already! But lately, I have truly felt this happen in my life. And I wanted to reflect with you all on this important topic.
It is no surprise that life can get crazy at times. Right now, I find myself being overwhelmed by many things to do. I have to study, volunteer, go to Church, spend time with friends and family, think about my future career and life goals, concentrate on my health, engage in self-care, and so forth.
And at times, I simply do not want to do anything at all. Nothing. Not sleep. Not work. Not eat. Not play. Not study. Not spend time with anyone. Not spend time with myself. NOTHING. I am bored, tired, and exhausted.
Life is pointless. There is too much to do and no time to do it.
I am bored and frustrated. I cannot do all of these things, and I feel that it is impossible.
Image result for what lies behind us and what lies before usI have no idea what the future will bring, and this makes me anxious.
I wish I was like XXX. I wish I could do ZZZ. I wish I was YYY. Then, everything would be better.
And the list in my head goes on and on. If I don’t stop myself soon, things will get worse – I’ll keep thinking these thoughts, I’ll become more sad and angry, and I’ll never do anything in my life.
So, what is one to do? The most helpful thing I have found is to think of something positive in my life. Anything. Yesterday, it was the fact that the sun was shining so nicely outside. The day before, it was that my family was alive and healthy, and that we were all together. Perhaps tomorrow, it will be the fact that I get to study medicine – my dream. Or that I am healthy and well. Or that my friends are there for me when I need to talk. You get the idea…thinking of something positive or something that we are thankful for can change our thoughts.
Image result for courage doesn’t mean absence fear But, let’s be real: does this eliminate the negative thoughts completely? No. Does this mean that my life is INSTANTLY ALL BETTER AND EVERYTHING IS GREAT AGAIN? No, of course not. But what it does do is force me to slow down. To take a nice, slow deep breath. And to silence all the negativity. To realize that despite the challenges and tough times, there is still some good in my life.